EGO TAMING P3: What is the truth?

If you haven’t been following along and read the past posts on this subject, I do urge you to do so now before continuing. Here are the links: EGO TAMING P1: How it all startedEGO TAMING P2: The Three-Pound Miracle As you have read in the past posts there are some fundamental flaws in a… Read More

EGO TAMING P1: How it all started

When I think about taming, the image that comes up is with my daughters trying to tame their hair in the morning. Always trying to get it just right, and the hair was just not cooperating. With a bit of understanding of what was going on, they were able to change things in their approach… Read More

Lost? Maybe asking a better question might be helpful.

IF YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ASK THE RIGHT QUESTION, YOU DISCOVER NOTHING W Edwards Deming I have noticed with clients in the early stages of the coaching conversation that they are primarily focused on understanding “why” things are the way they are. Questions like:Why am I always depressed?Why can’t I stop this?Why am… Read More

Is Life a Seven Act Play?

Shakespeare was a pretty enlightened character. Several of his plays pointed to that the world is just a stage or that we are just poor players on that stage. Jaques: “All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his… Read More

Oh, the places we will go when you have coffee with me!!

If you ever spend some time with me for a chat, you will soon come to realize that I can go places one would never have thought in at least that moment. Like how do we go from having a wonderful conversation about goals and suddenly flip over 1080 degrees to “I wonder what the… Read More

Catching Up and My First Public Interview!

Einstein was certainly onto something with his Special Theory of Relativity and that he determined that time is relative based on the frame of reference. Inspirit of COVID19 this past year has been certainly full of new and wonderful experiences and I can’t believe that the spring of 2021 is tomorrow! I will be brief.… Read More

Announcement: The 2021 Foundation for Self-Discovery is starting this month!

In emergency management, the first few minutes of a situation can determine how the rest of the event will unfold. You can apply that same philosophy to the start of any new year. We tend to look at opening a new calendar as a symbol for taking a fresh start or a reset to get… Read More